To get there, our taxi drove us down a long, isolated boulevard. That's why, when we found out about Lab.Oratory, a sex club in the basement of Berlin's internationally renowned Berghain nightclub, we knew we had to go-that taking part in a bacchanal 300-man orgy was the perfect way to celebrate our bond.īerghain is part of an old power station in an industrial and remote neighborhood of East Berlin. We wanted all the adventures we could handle like our marriage, we decided our honeymoon didn't have to follow any rules. Watching them expanded something inside of me, and with time, I learned that I could fall in love with both of them, and that we could love each other, and others, without limit.Īlex and I got married this February, and we decided our honeymoon would be a five week trip to Europe.
Yet there was something beautiful to be found in the way they would hold hands or kiss. When we met our boyfriend, Jon, watching Alex fall in love with someone new challenged me in ways I never could have anticipated. I have walked out of threesomes in a fit, pulling Alex out with me, because he kissed a guy too long or looked at him in a way I felt should be reserved only for me. It took years of conversations and fights to finally find comfort in the arrangement.
